Why The Pick-up Can be Hard

One of the reasons that pulling girls is so difficult for many men is because men think that if a girl seems uninterested at the very start that they have failed. Put simply, these guys think that their pick-up line must be some sort of magic bullet that hits a girl in-between the eyes and makes her fall head-ever-heels in love!

Come on! It doesn’t work that way – she will make you work for it!

There is no such line/body posture/gesture that can sweep a girl off her feet! However, there is proven methodologies that can and do work from the outset. It is true that within just 7 seconds you can have a woman’s attention and create instant attraction. However, she will NEVER let you know that!

You don not need any magic bullets nor an especially good pick-up line or even a hot-shot attitude in order to have a good approach and get in close enough to work your game! There are three stages of seduction as identified by the world’s best pick up artists.

1. Approach/Opener.
2. Building Attraction.
3. Building familiarity or Comfort.

When you know how to work these three stages you will get more dates with gorgeous girls than you can handle.

So to begin all that is needed is an opener – any opener – in order to start a good, fascinating conversation that will lead to an attraction between the 2 of you later.

You're much better off beginning a conversation by asserting something engaging and thought provoking. Anything that gets her and her group talking amongst each other and directing there answers to you!

This puts you immediately into the leader role. You immediately gain social stature in her eyes. So the next thing to do is create attraction.

You do this by teasing her a little and by directing your attention to the other members of the group while ignoring her. When she tries to interject you tell her to wait her turn because you are talking to the others. Then turn to her friends and saying something like, “is she always like this”. Make sure you deliver your lines with a smile and in a cheeky but nice manner. Everyone must know that you are joking.

However these little acts solidify your position as dominate make and leader while undermining her position. She will soon fight to reinstate her position and because you have set yourself up as the leader and the socially “elite” she must do it through you.

You will notice her trying to get your attention more and more. As she does this she will find herself becoming more attracted to you but she will not really know why.

Next, after you have generated enough attraction from her you must make her feel comfortable. You can do this through mimicking behaviour and compliments. A word of warning here!!!! Never compliment her on her looks! Don’t o it – no matter how gorgeous she is. This will only lead to undermine your position and dampen her attraction to you.

Compliment her on her choice of music, her outlook on life or the fact that she like fish & chips – anything but her looks!

When you use these three stages correctly you can literally pick up ANY woman you want! So, would you like a step-by-step guide to mastering the rules of attraction and get girls that you now only look at on the internet? Then visit TiffanyTaylor and get the steps now!