1. MovementInsecure and unconfident blokes are always fidgety and jerky. Assured men, and the world's greatest pick up artists, who have confidence are always the men who go home with the hot lady! Confident men make really controlled movements. They walk slowly and only make controlled movements. You will never see an assured man nervously tapping his foot like a hydraulic road drill! You never see a confident man fidgeting with his fingers. By slowing down your movement you are presenting to the rest of the Earth a more "comfortable" version of yourself and it makes you that much more approach-friendly.
2. Lean Back and Relax
Be more laid back. The key to being laid back is to relax. Relax your body and your mind. Let your arms hang down at your sides, and make yourself as comfortable as you possibly can. Shy guys are inclined to "shielding" themselves from other folks by sitting forward with their arms folded. Don't do this as it makes you look closed off. Just allow yourself to relax!
3. Become BIG
In any situation, always take up as much space as possible. If you are sitting in a lobby, kind of lean back and kick your legs out. This is a "territorial" thing that all folk notice subconsciously. If folks see you taking up this space they'll instantly presume you to be the alpha male in the room!
4. Walking Posture
When you're walking it's necessary to have a really good posture. Don’t slouch! If you walk with your head down and your hands in your pocket you will look completely unapproachable and “shifty”. Walk with your back straight, with your head leaned up a little. Stick your chest out and bring your shoulders back – AND SMILE!
This shows ladies that you are confident. Have a look at any millionaire, pop or rock star, or movie star. They walk upright confidently and it is down to the fact they are assured within themselves.
5. Open Yourself
When you're approaching ladies stand or sit with your palms a little exposed with your arms at your sides and with your legs shoulder width apart. Don't ever cross your arms or your legs as this is a signal of being "closed" off and defensive. Remain calm. Never show too much emotion at any given point, this makes you appear as if you are not in charge of your life or your situation.
6. Tonality
While this is in fact the use of speech as an attractive force it's more body language than anything more. If you talk too fast you will appear insecure because you are trying to force your point and say as much as you can before the other person gets a word in. Slow down your speech! Folks who talk fast are typically left in the dust because they appear to never let the other person talk and when they do they seem to not be listening just waiting for their opportunity to interject and say something else.
Don’t speak to slowly or lowly either. Really slow speech indicates lack of confidence in what you are saying. Low volume has the same affect and makes you look nervous!
If you can master every one of those body language tips then you'll join the “Major League” of dating. You will attract beautiful women and hot girls without them even realising why!
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