Monday, 15 June 2009

4 Steps to the Pick-up!

Most men want to know how to seduce beautiful women. If you would like to get far more than your fair share of the ladies then be sure to read this entire post.

The problem with seduction is that most men don’t really know what is involves. For example do you know when to start seducing a woman? When you should the seduction start?

The reason I ask this query is really because many fellows screw up when it comes to seduction. They think seduction starts once they are alone with a woman. This is untrue. Seduction starts the moment you spot a woman you like!

The truth is seduction starts long before you are alone with a woman. In reality, it starts during your first meeting. If you can be seductive from the instant you meet a girl, then you can speedily build attraction and comfort before you get to the goods! The end result will be an easy finish to the pick-up or you will find, quite often, that the woman seduces you when you are alone.

In this post, you'll learn about 4 specific techniques you need to use when you first meet a woman. By implementing these techniques, you will find it fairly simple to put her under your seductive spell.


Step 1: Use an engaging and funny opener.

To be truthful, your approach is the most important thing to get right when you set out to become popular with the ladies. The very first thing you say to a girl sets the tone for the rest of the conversation and builds an image of the type of guy you are in here head. As a consequence, you want to employ a funny or thought-provoking opener that'll attract her attention.

Your goal when you first approach a lady is get her speaking and make her curious about you. Generally you can do this with an opener that asks her opinion about something. All you've got to do is craft an opener that may pique her interest. This work especially well if you tell her, and her friends, that you want a woman’s opinion on the matter.

The opener can be anything from asking an opinion about your chum's girl trouble to the best smelling cologne to use. Act urgent! Now this does not mean you should rush your lines or be pushy! Tell the girl or group that you can’t stay long as you have to get back to your friends. When they are discussing the subject interrupt every now and then with another piece of the story. This sets you on a higher social standing because you are directing the conversation!


Step 2: Use the teasing technique.

Now once you are getting her to chat, you should implement what's widely called “teasing”. The idea behind this perspective is act somewhat uninterested and interested at the same time. I know this sounds silly but it works like a charm. Find small things about her that you can provoke her with. Ensure you smile as you do it so that she knows you are teasing her.

If she goes to speak tell her to stop interrupting and wait her turn and ask her friends if she always embarrasses them like that. ALWAYS smile when you do this. Even wink at her mates while you say it.

Although this is done in humour it always sets you up to look like the alpha male of the group – even though you have just joined it! It also robs her of her social standing in the group. She will immediately try to regain this social standing and now that you are the alpha male the only way she can do it is by getting YOUR approval. This one technique is enough to get you tons of hot women! It is used by all the great pick up artists.


Step 3: Question her

Lead the conversation onto deeper levels by listening to her and looking for an opening to ask her more personal questions like “why do you say that?”, “Is there a reason that you hold that particular opinion”. Then you can compliment her on how she thinks or feels about something before immediately going back to teasing her. Women love this!
The point of this is to show her that you are gaining interest in her for more than her looks and this is why you must never, ever compliment her on her appearance or her beauty – that will kill the attraction instantly at this point!

Some good questions that will give you the opportunity to get her talking on a more personal level are:
"What's the maddest thing you have ever done"

"How would you spend 1,000,000 dollars"

"How much money would it take for you to sleep with a random stranger"

While these questions may appear a bit childish, there are superb for building attraction and becoming familiar with her better. They also allow you the opportunity to find things to compliment her about and also things to tease her about.
When you are implementing this step you are building comfort with her as well as building on the attraction. Therefore, it is important to get physical contact going on. Just lightly touching her arm or shoulder or moving her hair away from her face.

Look for signs that she is doing this to you. Women are touch guys that they like a lot! So if she starts this you know you have been given a “green light” to continue!


Step 4: Use sexual innuendos to build positive “tension”

The easiest way to actually seduce a lady during your conversation is to use sexual innuendos. Interject little comments into the conversation about the topic when you have the opportunity. If you don’t get an opportunity steer the conversation in that direction by joking and teasing her about how she wants you or is just trying to take advantage of you. Or you might mention comments about how she is hitting on you and making an attempt to pick you up for sexual favours.

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