The only thing that some men don’t like about the beach is the fact that they think they have to compete with the muscle-bound Adonis type that flexes his pecks while talking to bikini clad hotties. However, regardless of what shape you’re in or your looks you can white-wash these guys and clean-up at the beach!Now you have probably seen ordinary guys successfully approach ladies at the beach, have a good conversation, get their number, ask them over, and not be declined. You are possibly considering how it's done. Is there a technique to the beach pick up? Yes there is!
When it boils down to approaching and meeting new ladies, you always need a plan. The beach is no different than being a club, greengrocer, park, mall, or anywhere else when it comes to the pick-up - you should always have a game plan! Some blokes are fortunate enough to have been born with the natural ability to seduce women however, for most of us, it is a skill we need to learn!
Alright, let's get to it. You need to how to pull girls at the beach. In this article I would like to teach you a way to correctly approach a girl in a beach setting.
Of course the first thing to consider is the "approach". This is the first part of your plan. If you see a girl you like follow the 10 second rule – don’t wait more than 10 seconds before you approach her. You have to strike immediately otherwise you start to let doubt, fear and apprehension creep in. When this happens you end up debating with yourself whether you should go over to her or not. Then you end up staring at her and (especially if she’s wearing a bikini) run the risk of looking like a perv! So follow the 10 second rule! Maximizing your time in this way also gives you the chance to talk to lots of women and get lots of numbers.
Have an opener. It is usually good to ask her and her friends a question. Make sure you tell the group that’s you can’t stay long because you have to get back to your buddies. This false time-constraint is important so don’t leave it out! Ask the group something that they must discuss and give you an answer for possibly with an explanation.
Always give a reason for asking the question like "Hi, I wonder if you could answer a question for me, my buddies and I were just talking about…."
Asking a question as though you want a female perspective is often a good way to get the conversation started so you might continue "…… my buddies and I were just talking about this guy we know who dated this girl. Now her sister wants to date him but he isn’t sure if that’s cool or not even though he likes her. What do you think he should do?"
Always smile. Always keep control of the conversation. When it gets going and the girl you like answers tell her to wait her turn. Then turn to her friends and ask, “is she always like that”. Ensure they know you are teasing. Smile, smile, smile!
This puts you in control makes you look like a leader and ensures you are displaying alpha male characteristics.
After you tease her for a bit you will notice her fighting for your attention. This is a sign that you have built up enough attraction. Now you can start to compliment her on anything EXCEPT her looks. This will make her feel comfortable with you.
Final tip: when you are building comfort make sure you find ways for physical contact. Placing your hand on her shoulder or lifting her hair away from her face etc. This will ensure you are still seen as a potential suitor while you build familiarity and comfort. Then simply ask for her number 9 times out of 10 you’ll get it no matter how beautiful she is!
Now hit the beach and enjoy!
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