Friday, 5 June 2009

The Best Ways to Meet The ladies

Ladies make up about half of the people of our world - so you'd think there would be lots of places to meet them. Right?

Well, if you are a fellow who's been striking out on a consistent basis with ladies, or simply having a tough time meeting those who will give you the time of day, you'd likely disagree with this assessment. In fact just like Chandler, from the sitcom “Friends”, thought when at a gay wedding ceremony, the world might be “your lesbian wedding”!

But the issue isn't that you cannot meet them, it's that you cannot find the right places to meet them. This article discusses some of the best places to meet women, with a little hint on what to do when you get there. Bars and clubs are not always the best places to meet women. Females are very defensive when they are in these places and have ‘their guard up’ more than normal.

If you can meet ladies in a more neutral environment you are much more likely to get a result! In fact, did you realise that even the best pick up artists prefer to pick up women in places like supermarkets rather than clubs?

So here is some advice to get you started:

1. Join a class at the gym. Though women mainly reign supreme, at aerobics and such, and greatly outnumber men (which is a plus!) at a gymnasium, this doesn't suggest that classes were made for them. Being one of the sole men in the class you can stand out among the gorgeous ladies surrounding you. Besides, most ladies will find it charming when you try and pose a downward dog in yoga class and will be only to eager to help. They will also respect and be attracted to your confidence for having the guts to do it on your own.

2. A cocktail party is a good way to meet a girl, too. Though bars are normally a bad way to meet someone, a cocktail party is a bit more formal making it easier to socialize and communicate without a barrage of sounds and other people cutting you off. Try to talk a female friend into throwing a party and inviting some hot girls she knows or throw your own and invite as many women as you can.

3. Women are becoming very disillusioned with the dating scene and meeting men in bars. That’s why you will find dating sites or in online flirt communities a gold-mine of opportunities for meeting hot girls. You can literally find millions (not a figure of speech we are talking millions here) of single women on social networks a lot of which are so hot that you’d think they were models and all they want is a man that they can connect with.

4. Try the social networking approach. This is a great way to meet women. They are much more open and easier to chat to because they are doing it over the interent.

5. Get a friend to set you up on a blind date. Did you know that recent surveys show that 56% of folks in a relationship essentially met their partners through pals or on their job? In fact did you realise that 73% of girls feel that the best way to meet a potential partner is through their social circle?


6. Of course once you have a date or a potential to ask for a date you need to know how to do it. You need to create attraction and then comfort before you can go for the date. Consider getting professional advice or by following proven step-by-step systems like TiffanyTaylor. Then just go out and enjoy yourself!

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