Rather than thinking what you need from this person, ask "how am I able to improve their day?" concentrate on being fun and funny. This improves their state and generates positive emotions towards you.
2. Elude direct questions:
Going in there asking heaps of questions telegrams too much interest and does not build attraction as you mean zip to this person at this time. Target statements, stories and jokes - these not only add value but show you are socially calibrated and do not 'need' your target.3. Don't try and be something you are not : most of the people, particularly ladies, are incredibly socially intuitive and can spot hypocrisy a mile off. They just frequently don't express it. Target your strengths - as an example, don't try and be Russell Brand if you are a genuinely talkative and jokey guy. It's hard to create a good impression if you don't come across as genuine.
4. Grin:
Yes, it is a cliché, but sad faces don't attract anyone. Learn how to pull girls with just a smile!
5. Don't put yourself down:
Seemingly trivial statements like 'yeah I am quite shy' may make the other person feel safe around you, but they positively don't build attraction or interest ( particularly for men ). You do not have to gloat about your life, but do not purposely highlight your negative qualities.
6. Don't sexually escalate too quickly:
The best pick up artist will set some foundations before kissing his target. He will not go straight in for the kiss as he knows she would blow him out. Always spend time getting the target ok with you first. Once you think you've established enough comfort and interest gradually increase the touching and escalate to the kiss from there.
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