Like, actually tired of it!
I must have read a ton of them over the last couple years. Unfortunately, and this is no joke, at this point it makes me sick trying to listen to another imitation pickup artist tell me why “his” method is better than “the rest” and women just can’t resists this line or that move! Come on…. Seriously…… I have heard it all before!
You see, it started when a friend of mine gave me a call blabbing on about this unbelievable “find” he had made. He went on and on about how it had changed his life and opened doors (and legs) to him that he never would have dreamed of before.
He was of course talking about a new seduction guide he had got about a week before as an instant download on the Internet! He told me that this book was different. He was very excited as he informed me that it was called “Guy Gets Girl” or The “TiffanyTaylor Seduction Manual” and that it was…. wait for it….. written by a girl!I took this moment to smile at his cost. I told him what I tell every guy who gets their dating advice from women - Don't trust anything they say.
You see it seems to men that most women don't actually know what attracts them to a man (apart from money, looks and fame of course!). If you ask a woman what she wants in a bloke, she will tell you some common things:
1. He should treat me with respect.
2. He has to be good-looking.
3. He should just "be himself".
I'm not making an attempt to be vicious on a woman's recommendation for the ideal man but come on….please! You tell a guy he has to be all that and then have the cheek to suggest he should be himself. Which is it? Which should he be the perfect man or himself?
Lord knows, they can be very smart creatures females. But did you know what is wrong with all this advice?
Firstly, most of it actually is extraordinarily general. If you are like most men, you'll scratch your head when you attempt to imagine which guys at the bar are "being themselves" and which try to be "someone else."
2nd, these are not the things that make a woman feel attracted to man. In fact if a man caves in to a woman’s demands and tries to be the person she wants him to be she will lose all respect for him and have no attraction to him whatsoever!
They are what a girl looks for in a pet that they can lead around on a leash. And after a lady accepts all your gifts and compliments, she'll finally stop responding to your calls, and months later you'll see her walking on the arm of the prototypical "w**ker" who mistreats her and is a general a**hole! Yet once again Mr. Loser has beaten you to the cookie jar!
Sure, I am generalizing but at the same time, I know it's true. How? Because that used to be me.
So when I heard about The TiffanyTaylor Seduction System, a complete seduction guide written by “an extremely beautiful” lady, don't blame me for judging it cruelly based entirely on my first impression.
But my buddy wasn't dissuaded and kept at me to read it. Well first off, Tiffany is hot, and though that sounds like it doesn’t matter, it showed me that she has been hit on time after time again in her life. So she must know what works and what doesn’t. Makes sense, right?
Second, she is a prize-winning writer who's been writing about dating for the majority of her modelling career. So she eventually put all her thoughts down in one book that covers everything from meeting, greeting to seducing and bedding hot women.
Now I would like to admit another thing to you. When it comes to approaching women (not just the gorgeous ones but any one) I am a little bit of a wimp. So I didn’t think any of the techniques I would hear would work – cause you need loads of confidence to use them Right?
Wrong!
When my pal called me again that night asking if I'd purchased the TiffanyTaylor system yet, I folded. To be honest, I do trust his opinion most of the time because he's a smart guy, and not at all bad with the ladies.
So I read the site, and the sales copy didn't mention anything about buying gifts for girls or having to be confident – in fact it states that money, looks, fame and “confidence” have nothing to do with attracting beautiful women. So I used my already over-stretched credit card and I was reading the book five minutes later. “Oh well”, I thought, “if it doesn’t make any sense I’ll take advantage of the 60 day guarantee and get my money back!”
Then something truly strange happened!
I spotted myself agreeing with many of the things that Tiffany Taylor was writing about. When she was talking about decent ordinary guys making mistakes she was describing me – at least that’s how it looked to me.
Then something even stranger happened.
I started to pick up some engaging concepts about ladies that I had never thought of before.
I sat up the whole night and only stirred from my computer screen when the first rays of sun sneaked into my room. I had read the entire book in one sitting (no small feat for me as I get bored after about 10 minutes usually).
I couldn’t wait to try out the system. It was so easy to follow and I knew I could use it with very little effort. I made arrangements to go out that night with a few pals and had my first taste of success. This girl that I had tried to hit on before, with no success, was at the bar and I used a few of the techniques. Next thing I knew I was waking up beside her in my bed!
I called my friend to admit defeat. He was right. So I told him, and it went a little something like this...
“This is possibly the best book on picking up girls that I've ever read.”
The weekend following reading the TiffanyTaylor guide, my chum and I pulled 2 lovable minxes from a local supermarket – I kid you not. We pulled them right in aisle 3! Now that may be nothing of a surprise because me and my friend are a couple of “studs” ;-) but I tell you one thing it wouldn’t have happened if we hadn’t been using the TiffanyTaylor system from the moment we saw them!
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